 Yesterday at club I
noticed a third grader who wasn't taking part in her small group. She was
detached, uninterested, and determined to stay that way. Last week I tried to
engage her in conversation, but she refused to answer my questions or make eye
contact. Last night I made the decision to speak to her parents about her
behavior - if she wasn't going to participate, maybe she would rather not be at
club ... and maybe my job would be a bit easier if I didn't have to worry about
the situation.
Dad answered the phone. Within a few minutes I learned
that Mom has been deployed for several months. I found out that my withdrawn
third grader is currently in trouble at school because of bad behavior. I
connected the dots and promptly felt extremely egocentric. My intent had been to
dismiss a little one, a girl precious in His sight, a child looking for somebody
to love her in the midst of transition. I had been so concerned with ministering
to the ninety-nine that I totally overlooked the one. I am so grateful that
Christ did not have that attitude towards me! I pray that He will give me
insight and energy, as I pursue this girl and others like her, so that I can
better communicate His great love to them.
Rebekah, Military Children's Ministry Worker
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